Hd and I had a great time in the marriage and one thing I admire in Hd is his patience in dropping and sitting patiently all the time..i am sure that had it been any other person then he might have asked me to pack early ..he is so better than me in matters related to patience. But one thing which also bugs me is his childish nature and behaviour. what is with guys? I mean what makes them stick to their 8 year old behaviour , i dont seem to get it. ..and speaking frankly we hardly have any people to visit in india keeping aside my people . ..though this is just a thought , i thought that after marriage there would be many people and social circle would increase . But there are hardly any additions to the old circles and Hd practically does not have any friends in india .I mean i want to meet new poeple as well . ..but one happy thing or rather sad thing is mum coming to work place and really admiring the place and at the same time wishing that i would not have to leave the company . Yes , yaar this place looks like a safe heaven and it did some things for me which probably would not have been possible may be outside . But when a decision is taken then i understand that it is better to follow it , may be the future has some thing else in store for me. ..and like mum said .. 'Everything is ought to have a beginning and an end' .
..this last week SIL has been at home and it was a chance to understand and spend some time her ..one thing that can be really appreciated in her is her attitude ..though she had come form USA only 2 weeks back , she did not show even one ounce of 'usaness' and was always ready to move ...and seeing the way she was controlling her mother , i could understand where she learnt all her ways of talking smartly and with knack . Her mother made her the way she is .. Unlike what Hd told me abt her , she is in complete awe of her husband and uses his experience and contacts to get into good positions in the company and makes use of her charisma to get things done...but coming to personal touch between us ? well i did not see much as she kept mum on many topics and only talked about the superficial things . But quite a career oriented girl who manages things well.
Marriage is all about keeping silent in many things , everything else about their family becoming ours is all crap. MIL gave me a picture about the perfect 'bahu' of her daughter as a DIL . After meeting her in person I felt she was just like any other person and gives importance to her freedom and guards her career ferociously.