Scenes from random meetings.

"I just don't like him"
Why?
Don't know why , it just repelled me that day.
But you didn't talk to him..
There is no need of that ..it repelled me all the same.
I think you should meet him
I don't think so.

Why exactly ? he has money good family ..i need to know why?

I hated the way he came and sat before me ..

How else can he sit..

I am telling i did not like it..

What exactly you didn't like ..

He has no conversation....no talk in him..what exactly did you like in him..

Stupid girl! cant you understand ..he has come from good family..

So what is good family ..a funny bro , mom who looks at his son as if he 's a namuna. ..Its not enough for me..

So what do you want exactly..

basic decency..

What is basic decency..

Good manners ..

So u think he has no manners ..

Yes i think so..

How can any one come to a new place , sit with a open collar, sprawling his legs, yawn uncontrollably and expect a girl to like ..

That 's why i want you to meet again..

It will not change any thing..so even you did not like him too..?

The bottom line is i cant stay with such a kind of person all my life..

Well you were born stupid and stubborn..

Well i got your genes too..

Shut up.

Thank you.

A constant company

It was always there..right from Good old days... a constant company ..
just a step behind ..most of the times ..though some times just lucky enough to have some silly company , through the college days , sitting alone in a single bench waiting for the faculty to turn up, through the time spent at home, through the long hours of work , through everything there has been just the company of me and my.....

..It stayed so long at the back ..that i had to fall for it one day..

My loneliness and me..:)

Child chat

This sunday i met my bro , SIL , and my 5 year old nephew. Actually we know each other very well as from the calcutta days. There he was this crying stubborn crysome boy who would not have any friend to play with , as my Anna 's family itself had hardly any contacts with the neighbourhood. I rememeber he talking to the dogs and cats on the street and shouting at th balcony , then there it was his place , and harldy allowed any one to come into that .

After relocating to hyd he proudly introduced me to his friends , urmila , kalyan and bharat.There is also a mahesh who lives in the top floor , he is tall and plays only in evenings when there is a light.

Me : what do you play with daily?
Urmi : we have 2 cycles , one car .
Me : So you 4 play with 3 ..vehicles only..
Kalyan: I have a small bicycle.
Urmi : but it does not work
Bharat: Mahesh anna also plays with us, ..but he is big..
Me : what you play only with cycles and car..Don't you play ice-pice....

They are now puzzled what is ice-pice, but wont ask me what is it..
Instead they again tell me the whole bicycle's and car thing and mahesh.

Me : So where you go on your car and bicycle .

I am proudly taken over to their houses , car shed , cycle shed.

There are 4 brick houses with three bricks placed in pyramid shape ( triangle ) and double flooried shed for vehicles. In the first floor the cycles are placed and car is palced in second floor .

There is also a cycle path and car path seperate as they should not dash into each other . (info from bharat)
This path spiralled from the steps to Gate. ( its almost like railyway track u see)

Me : It looks like a railway track to me..

the 4 in unison say Noooooo it is a car path...

Oh how will car go in such a road..
then they point to me the edging lines ..the car wheels should be placed on them and there Will be gravel in between.

Man ..what a sound answer ..I didn't have any more doubts.

Khwahish : Travelling

Reading other blogs leaves you with one thing to muse over :
Why did the other world has just slipped away from our palms ..I mean why did not we not get to travel as much as we really deserved (???!!!)..New places ..
And this puts me to thinking how much have i travelled in india..and how much have i enjoyed my own city for once..

There are few places i go ..but then we repeatedly keep going to those places ..almost to the extent of getting bored ( actually got ) bored ..

The only places i have visited (very few )have been very beautiful ..But all have been religious places ..and not the ones where you can back-pack and walk the road .all in all..They are very few places.

List of places to be seen :
South :
Kanya kumari
Sriranga patnam
Kerala : (reserved for some one ) ;)
Rameshwaram

North :
Rajasthan
Kashmir
Uttaranchal

12/07/2007

Its Friday ..i had to attend a training ..today ..i should have actually....ass that i am i postponed it to next Thursday..

Saw the mail box holding my breath ..expecting at least one feedback for the code written..
pheew..they still dint do the testing........
Now some where next week i am booked..
M is online ..bless her new project ..she is always there ..now ..
Will now have a day of chatting , blogging..etc.,

One hour down : Now i understood what is the meaning of the immediate approval of my leave application.......Project is coming to an end...and i can hear roll off bells ..Another project to belly..should say that it was fairly good work though everything got stretched more than needed .good first experience in this new company.Good show.not a bad feed back from manger too.i need a POB.

Two hours : Hey i wish there was work ..and i was racking my brain..but god no deaaaaaaaad lines please. I also want to work from client place........on second thoughts may be not...!!!!$@#!!

Three hours : I am studying you know one huge word document ...hungrwy.. OK still 5 .. after one tea ..i am again hungry..i don't know why these days i am always hungry.. before i was hungry every 3 hrs ..now it is like every 2 hours ..and ( i ate yestreday my lunch box + masala corn (canteen) went home at 12 again had curry and puligore ..) and slept the most sound sleep in recent times ..

Four hours : Had a glimpse of 'Lord of the Rings ' ( thats what the gym room is named ) Apt right!! Had a cup of masala corn..but still hungrwy..walked back ..had a chat in the super climate with madhu..saw the people coming to different processes at 6 Pm , bad right ..thanks life's not bad at least.......Long back in my previous company i was always taking evening break ..compulsory to eat some thing ..one reason could be i was working on 9 floor and canteen was on 10 floor ..but now i have to walk two blocks..and you see i am buzzzzzy. ;)
shall i tell a joke ..there is a guy who sits diagonally to me..he is always so engrossed in his laptop that i thought ..here is one person who really works..and i saw chori chori what he was doing in afternoon ..he was on yahoo....advantage of a laptop you see ..innocent people like me get cheated easily .........and i think half the people on the floor around me know now that i am not having work.. :P

Five Hours : I am slightly close to getting mad with boredom..this is not a place where you can stand up and yawn loudly..talk loudly..and and there is actually not many people who can come out ..cant blame them actually ..i was equally busy last weeks ..and could not move from my place..and i am hungrwy again..boo..hoo..

Six hours : Just now heard bad news ..it seems they are going to assign work before vacation..damn them.. :(((((((((((

Seven hours : I am badly hungry now.

Eight Hour : i am kiskofying now ..ta ta ta .

Quote of the day

I am getting senti these days.. ;) ;)

Me and bro

I have read some where ..,may be in some blog ..that to have a sibling and enjoying some thing with them in common ..i mean love of some thing say games, food or going out leaves you with enormous joy ..

whoever reads this should leave a note on what they have love to do with their bros/or sis..ok?

Now what do i have common with my brother ...I will think and come back i guess its difficult to answer this question.

Rolling days

From monday to tuesday to wednesday to thursday to friday to week end..

This year's last days are rolling by..

Gyan

I have been communicating with this guy through emails, and spoke to him over the phone once for a few hours. Then we met in a gathering where we couldn't really talk as many people were around us. Then he emails me. Quoting his words "I am sure you are a lovely person." Do you think he is interested in me or is it kind of avoiding statement? Appreciate your feed back. Thanks, K.


Dear K., That statement is very polite, but politein this case is not what you want. If the man isinterested in you, you will know it. He will finda way to talk to you even in a crowd. So do notemail him again unless he emails you first. If Igot an email with those words and not much else,I probably would not even respond!

Wait a long time before responding, and rememberthe Underwear Rule of Email To Men - keep it BRIEF.That is a part of my book titled 'Calling Men'!

You know the old saying "I won't go where I'm notwanted"? That is, in my opinion, a sign of a healthypersonality. Yet there are people who do PUSH others,insisting that they "let them into their lives."

There is no one lover or friend that you cannot live without -except for yourself! No matter how much you may THINK it'smeant to be, that doesn't mean that it is. God may have otherplans for you. So when things don't work out in love, or whena door is slammed in your face - don't waste a lot of energyfighting against it.

Turn your attention to what you CAN make happen. Work on your ownenvironment and life to make it fantastic. And realize that somethings are not meant to be - for a GOOD reason - for what willturn out to be in your own best interest.

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