..again and again the wording and messages of the Gods point to the simple message He wants us to understand .. Be thankful for the Existence . Fo what ever situation and conditions you face , dont chicken ..if you have a smaller plan in mind He has the larger plan and you will fit in at the end . Its like for a cake to bake well everything needs to happen in its time mixing , baking , icing and decorating . So wishing everything to go well for everyone .

..and while we flit through the questions on life like why should we be the one to stand and face things ..there are people who are overcoming things like this ..

http://news.bbc.co.uk/2/hi/south_asia/8365834.stm

..so go back now .

Hello there ,

Hope all are doing fine ? yeah i am surviving too . Well I wanted to share some thing today . I have been reading a book recently after a very boring so called mystery novel though actually it sounded like some kind of subdued comedy of M&B book to be correct . Anyways i picked this new book which is called 'Beyond the Blonde' written by a hairstylist sorry colorist Kathleen flynn -huii ..and thanks to this book i have been googling , using Wiki , and google images and may be i have hit some 1000 (!!) times till now to understand the hair styles , designers and came across some very good links which i give below .

Now what do we know about the 'Dear Abby' hairstyle ..google it and you will come across some thing interesting but the baap of all the links is this :

http://www.highonhair.com ..just go through this to understand the level of coloring that white people want to do to their hair..it is unthinkable for us asians .

..and also this interesting thing of interior decoration which set me thinking..

http://www.ohdeedoh.com/ohdeedoh/how-to/how-to-decoupage-with-lorena-simonovich-049459

you see i am reading all kinds of crap...

Saree cravings

.. there are cravings of many sorts ..people who want love have chocolate craving...it is said people in the cold countries crave cheese ..may be better read this

http://vegrd.vegan.com/pages/article.php?id=1489

and in the same way these days when i see our Tollywood songs like this

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=NtyqYL5OIXQ&NR=1

I have saree cravings not that she is best in the sarees but because this is the kind of day when i would actually like to wear a Saree and hop around as if I am the most comfortable person in it.

Dressing up lifts the mood of any down person and it has been proved many times about it . A good dress with make up ( if you are up to it ) does magic to people ..Goshh i am missing it!

Lately i have observed that i have an obsession to houses , i mean it's just not a clean house but when i browse through all the channels on the TV i just stop at the shows which focus on home-make overs , home furnishing , flower decorations ( though i really it's a pity that they have to cut so many flowers for some stupid charity or marketing strategy ) . I suppose many people like to do it , but i have to give it a serious thought about this whole thing , may be do some course for that ..what you say ? By the way the channel I watch is called HGTV , i think quite famous here.

and on second thoughts i never saw myself kill time so much doing all useless things , i mean so much . At every stage in life there were so many things happening even when I was at home but this long gap seems to be never ending .

:-)

There's some thing sweet about a husband who comes into the house whiffing air and guessing whats for lunch .

Well actually this post has no meaning except to smile ( a big one ) at the compliment that a friend has given over my blog and my writing . a Big thank you and wait for my surprise call there . I desperately want to make this a public blog and enjoy some viewership and lime light . ( !!!!! ) , but i have to close so many posts to public reading that the task seems too cumbersome .

So again cmng to the point what am i actually doing in life ? Yes the boring question which has so many ambiguous answers that sorting through them will take a life time but looking with a squited eye , i can see that i am reading a book , and i make aloo -paratha ,( done with the dough thankfully , thanks also to friend M and Manjula's kitchen ;) ) , wait for some one to knock the door by , try to go anywhere if they just ask me casually ' What are you doing ' and before they hang up i am at their door step , got the general idea ?! , procrastinate the things which might actually help me to eternity like reading some thing meaningful to 'some time later jeee' , click on all the blogrolls even if it an old post to read ( desperate to pass time ) , clean , use the dish washer with a vengence (!!) , eat, watch TV ( a small info : An average American sees 4.9 hours of TV per day ) which actually made the thing repulsive ( yuck ) ) and finally sleep .

..and also to remind people that duniya gol hain tho paisa bhi gol hain , ghoom phir ke ek hi jageh pe aayenge bhai! samjhe kya ! duniya ka tareeeka hain yeh bhai !Samjha karo!

New blogrolls

..I just started to write a post wanting to crib about life in general and why this agni -pariksha of shoving empty time and space on the face and the general tired ness of being in life . then I wondered if an animal in capture is in capture because of its foolish ness and nobody is to be blamed other than the animal ? or is it like the other day statement of hubby when he said ' whats the purpose of life and i could not laugh within my self at the statement because it needed to come from me .

So yes guys whats the purpose of life and is it the non appreciation of the good things around you or the no recognization of the house above your head and the food in your plate ? so what is it that drives a person with job and a person without job to the same question of ' what is the purpose of life ?' .

Coming to that i saw a website by a group of foreigners on arunachaleshwar in TN where they seem to have found god . And coming to that why is it that when we have prayed right from the beginning of life till here could not see the power of god as they seem to see it ?
Why ?
http://arunachalagrace.blogspot.com/

..and since i have ultimately ventured into this let me also share or heck let me blogroll this :

http://nithyaevents.blogspot.com/

The clean house

..people who know me from a closer point know that i am a slightly obsessive cleaner not the OCD cleaner , but some one who more than once cleans the kitchen i would rate a obsessive cleaner for sure ..and i watch a pro gramme called 'The clean house ' in TV these days . Have been watching for some time now and it is funny the way i go about the pro gramme. There are two episodes about which i was impressed and let me tell you the way of the americans here before we start writing anything . 90% of them are shop-o-holic i mean for an average Indian like me where we think twice to buy anything the shopping here can drive crazy and the way amercians can buy and store things is like ' woaaah ' for me .

So there is this family with the 85 year mother-in- law , a chirpie grand daughter ,another daughter who does not live in the house because of the mess and the father of the house who is junk collector . The chirpie daughter is a ballerina and is the person who calls the clean home team and as all the episodes go about the team has tough time walking in the room to assess the clutter . The girl has ballerina dresses from the age of 4 , the MIL has stuff dating back to the 1930's , and the item of the house the father has the most junk of the house for eg., two dish washers , two black hammers etc., everything in two which he has bought to use if the first get screwed up ...

..and the motive behind writing the post is to observe my sense of satisfaction when i see the house getting decluttered ..i relish and enjoy every moment of the episode and the process of the decluttering is like, as if i am with the team doing the work with them . I enjoy the act of throwing things and coming to the point of that i enjoy throwing things in the kitchen , inside the dust bin when i am done with them ...pooh ..! What do you call this syndrome ?

But one thing is for sure that each american has such a strong individualism and they carry their style with them . It 'sa culture where individualism is appreciated and inter-dependence is discouraged to the edge . So each episode in clean house i get to see the family habits and junk storage of things connected to their personality and blah blah..

..there are some people who are exploring the peaceful waves of sringeri and i am missing the starlit sky of a midnight 5 years back where the gods have wedded under the careful eye of caretaker . To be more clear i miss the sringeri trip we went 5 year back where girija kalyanam took place under srngeri bharathitheertha swamiji where at the strike of 12 midnight the lord took the hand of her highness and intertwined his fingers with naughty twinkle and the skies showered a slight drizzle to make the picture complete . Will i forget the day ?!! Nope .

..Mom and gang are there now and seem to njoy the serenity and splendor of karthika pournami where the whole village and all the small temples are decorated with lamps .

So this picture for you .