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I have been communicating with this guy through emails, and spoke to him over the phone once for a few hours. Then we met in a gathering where we couldn't really talk as many people were around us. Then he emails me. Quoting his words "I am sure you are a lovely person." Do you think he is interested in me or is it kind of avoiding statement? Appreciate your feed back. Thanks, K.


Dear K., That statement is very polite, but politein this case is not what you want. If the man isinterested in you, you will know it. He will finda way to talk to you even in a crowd. So do notemail him again unless he emails you first. If Igot an email with those words and not much else,I probably would not even respond!

Wait a long time before responding, and rememberthe Underwear Rule of Email To Men - keep it BRIEF.That is a part of my book titled 'Calling Men'!

You know the old saying "I won't go where I'm notwanted"? That is, in my opinion, a sign of a healthypersonality. Yet there are people who do PUSH others,insisting that they "let them into their lives."

There is no one lover or friend that you cannot live without -except for yourself! No matter how much you may THINK it'smeant to be, that doesn't mean that it is. God may have otherplans for you. So when things don't work out in love, or whena door is slammed in your face - don't waste a lot of energyfighting against it.

Turn your attention to what you CAN make happen. Work on your ownenvironment and life to make it fantastic. And realize that somethings are not meant to be - for a GOOD reason - for what willturn out to be in your own best interest.

The world's most romantic man agrees:


"Fairy tale marriages do exist and you CAN have one," saysMichael Webb, known as the World's Most Romantic Man!

Michael says, "It is amazing how many people are satisfied witha mediocre, even unhappy relationship."