........and so the menu for today is tomato chutney and potlakaya koora. ...not knowing what to call potlakaya in English i typed the same in google images to get all kinds of food recipes on snake gourd. ..the day started rather slow and was still in going on but some where it picke dup and i prepared the lunch which was finished by Hd and me in 20 mts ..and the joke is 'menthulu' was out of stock at home and i went to the near by grocery store to bring it and they could understand what was i saying..and i the idiot did not know that it si called 'methi' in hindi even though the shop keeper was repeating 'is it methi ?..so i fished it out from the store and the shop keeper told some complex name of the same in tamil which i cannot even recollect now ...

..i was still boiling and wheeling under yesterdays pressure when the EPR drama started and i felt really tired ...I fought hard and earned for a second round of discussion and i hope that i will win through it .Friends are the ones who can help you through the thick and thin of life and the EPR review result shocked them . ..and in the process chitra told me about the concept of 'Emotional Weightage' ..and thanks to her my mood lighted up a lot ...the funda is ' already so much has happened that I guess there is nothing much to happen except may be some thing tooo devasting which will i guess kill some part fo you ..so when already so much has passed then what is the significance of the small things that annoy you ..true..the small things can be made smaller all the time and so better leave it and take a stand of the opinion on things rather than make them bigger . ..be firm on the opinions and stand by them'...and frankly speaking it does not matter what people say as long as you know that amma and nanna are right ..once again thanks for being there people !!

..the day ended with Hd making some nice dosas and we filling it up again ..he seems to be good at this job...