..I have read today about the a blog named 'Ramblings of a pretty woman' and really found the title amusing to read .The author lives in Paris and is of course 'Tamizh' -my half guess was true about it any way .
..and its really amusing to read the bloggers like her and many more to that writing so dearly about their husbands in such endearing words ..Why cannot i do like that ?
Yeah i can understand it been only 10 months of marriage and may be i am tooo old now to fall in luuvvv any way but still i wonder even after 10 years i can write like that .Things like life has started with you and so on .I mean what about all the people who made life before that person came into our lives . To speak the truth there were moments of emptiness before marriage and there was a constant grudge to fill the empty place with some one but there were many more fulfilling moments , like interesting conversations with the "exes..' etc., and also parents .

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..some times people come home and remark that it is really unfortunate that dad should pass away so immeditaly after marriage and that they did not expect to come to home for a death after such grand marriage and remark how happy dad and mum looked in th emarriage etc.,
True ! it is all true ..I agree completely , but to all the people who said that did you ever wonder how freshly wounds can be ruptured by such callous statement !
..and it brought me this feeling that may be the delay in my marriage was also for good since dad was any ways destined to pass off after my marriage ..God the things people can put in mind . Ok all of you out there , live for a hundred years and curse your years like hell .Good for you . Dad had a life of Quality than Quantity and I tell you what , he was dear to god , since from the day i knew him well , he never missed even one day of prayers or sandhya vandanam /agni hotram in his life and it is enough to put him ahead of all of you .