Here i am finally writing this on my blog.
Pretending wont help now , nor 'oh! i will think about this some other time'. Not much to gape at but , but i often tend to believe that this is not my part of life, but in fact this is just my life going on now. Like different phases , there was a time when , i thought i would never be getting a 'good' job , but again the curves of fate topsied , turvied and ended up some where called here .
Drained and exhausted for three days , i did not want this meeting today .Really i just wanted to take it easy this week end , be at home, glued to TV , or just a visit to friend.But , no, there is no mercy , and i have to go through all this , added to the fact that my father also turned up for this.I don't know why people want to show up without proper formalities , no snaps, no details of who am i going to meet ,what am i supposed to expect here . But there was no-time for war with dad nor the energy.
Well finally after signal from my mom , i ventured forth , and after initial introduction, i just kept staring at the girl ( the prospective groom's SIL) , she was the only bearable sight in the trio.There was nothing bad actually but , i did not venture to talk this guy. I mean i just did not feel like it. Shuffling feet , narrow glances nothing induced me to talk to him, i am asking myself why ? may be this is what is there , and i am supposed to accept this only . His SIL ventured to ask me if i was interested in talk privately, really tell me , what can 2 completely strangers , can have anything to ask each other to talk privately . I being the 'scandal' of the house said , 'may be some other time' and also added to it , we can talk as well here. OOPS!!!! This will never be pardoned from their side ;;;;;) . But to cover my so called 'bad' manners after getting a glance from my OMG dad , I asked him , if there is anything to talk. And (wink!) which guy will say yes ! Yes man i did it , At least i did it , in making myself clear , that there was nothing much at least from my side.
But in comparative analysis this was a relatively smooth going for me, thinking of the harrow experience last week. But well, This has been my life now , and i am learning to love it, i mean see who will get the chance to meet so many different natured people , all kind of weirdo guys , strange moms, cranky brothers , staring uncles , time-pass aunts , drop-in-relatives to add up the whole scenario , who will have such wonderful luck , combined into one. Except Me!
P.S : I did it , i did it , i exposed myself on this blog!Its relieving.
2 comments:
If one is eligible to marry and raise a family.... Why can’t parents have the confidence on them to choose life partner with whom they want live & share rest of the life? Something can never be changed and some things do change. Most of us choose the later…. Marriage is compromise…… but how much one want to compromise is left us…. No wonder why I don’t want marry at all….. I don’t mind to be alone than being stuck with a wrong person rest of my life….
Whatever decision is made by us, think that’s the best u can take at that time and just be satisfied with it…. Live life happily in present coz tomorrow is unknown….
Take control of ur life and dont let anyone control it,,,,
//i mean see who will get the chance to meet so many different natured people , all kind of weirdo guys , strange moms, cranky brothers , staring uncles , time-pass aunts , drop-in-relatives to add up the whole scenario , who will have such wonderful luck , combined into one. Except Me!
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Sarcasm to the core........strangely instead of trying to think about this i laughed out aloud to the humour you tagged to it........Great Going Ms KB.......I just loved this post...:)
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