Rambling thoughts

Once again i am back to the 'waiting for mail from onsite ' phase and again there i am with little to do and a lot to muse about.

The thoughts which have been occupied me now have been gruelling us for some time now and i guess i f i don't put them down at some point now will never be able to do it right.The constant argument between me , (actually my group ) of unmarried girls , who chose to do it by taking some time ....and all the 'good wishers ' around us who want to end up some where 'married ' has never failed to pull us down and set us thinking about ..hey where are we( it implies to all my group of females ' not yet committed ' .. all headed to'?..hummish hummish humm..

Part one : This part of the story surfaces when we are all still fresh from college ... and the the minds of the family and self are not yet polluted with th e 'longeest ' period of searching in life for the right person?
Well i guess i ma deviating here and want to confine this to the comparison of life of the unmarried and married one's.

All my college Friends excepting a few are now married with the prospect of having a child in the near future .I try to find happiness in their countenance , but fail to do , mainly because it could be that they are just projecting the sad part of their marriages ..and secondly may be i failed to find some happiness in their life itself.
they are in fact very envious over our budding careers ..our freedom to take a decision without the 'permission' of the hubby ..
the sheer happiness of being at home , spending considerable time with family meaning amma, nanna , bro, etc.,)..the joy of spending your own money without the interference from any one and thinking too much about saving , loans etc.,


They fail sometimes to value the importance of having a partner at their side ..
It has come so easily to them that they don't know their life without hubby at side.
they want to spend considerable time with them selves ..which is now impossible ..
and they start envying all the uncommitted people ..
I know its a kind of reiteration of the above point but all the same ..

They have definitely missed this part of life where you can come form work and tell mom about al the interesting happenings ..your promotions ..the joy in family when you have done it good ..

..one more thing is they have not seen definitely not seen many guys around like us at work ..outside..

..to be contd.