When you are single ..and may be of the age to jump the line and make some commitments..we see the commitment as some thing that gives us satisfaction..a person to whom we can relax and tell everything..talk ..talk and more talk..a honest and ready listener.....all pretty things .
Now i am wondering if all the 'commitments' we see around us are really 'COMMIT' ments ?!!
Finally when people make that move ..they find themselves as if its some thing one has to hide from ..their ideas ..and natural reactions get repressed may be ..from the ridicule one faces quite often ..or may be because people always expect a person to be right on everything..Always..i think this is one thing that stresses out people for what they are from..
Like We often come across People At work..especially Married People ..who keep talking the whole day ..because they dont get much of a chance to talk at home..they just blurt out everything at work..and this topic could be from Problems at home ..to Child birth ..or their life before marriage..they talk talk talk..and their mobile keeps ringing the whole day..continuation of yesterday nights fights and discussions may be..
Like i once met a 'Lecher' (can only call That !!) whom once i met sensed that some thing was wrong ..and kept a bit aloof and a very formal attitude....Later on one lady told that he has been quite a Cad with her (there is always a chance to report ) but the lady had a taste of it some how when she least expected it..and he went on to tell her about all his pre-martial affairs ..his view of females..these things may be are common to many men ..but some fools cant just keep them inside them....He went even to the extent of telling his live-in relationship .....Of course he was an exceptional case..
And there are some people who cant help being the 'Quite-a-gentleman' with ladies at work..
they say the sweetest things ..give their best smiles ..are always so 'Shweet' that overtime if you smile back..done!!! They slowly take the liberty of commenting and saying 'Nice shirt ' or 'whats spl today'..little comments which have no harm and if you see with normal eyes have no inner meaning also..but the 'inner' meaning comes out slowly ..at the least expected of time ...
I dont mean to classify all men into one category or that people always mean 'something else'
..but these things are always around the corner .
Spending some time with a single person is like going for them to good old days ..days when you still had plans for everything ...a taste like special coffee from normal..
to be contd..
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